What's the most valuable lesson you've gained from your Father?
The recent interview about former Senator Bongbong Marcos brought back memories of my Father, a man I admire as a leader and provider in our family. His love and purpose extend beyond us to the people in our community, creating a shared sense of purpose and a strong bond.
To be in public service is a great privilege to influence and make a lasting impact on people. It's about exerting energy and great effort to look after the people's and the community's welfare above the Self.
I remember in 1998 when my Father decided to be in public service as a Municipal councilor. I had just graduated from elementary school and was overwhelmed by the world of politics. My Father informed us about his plans and wanted to hear our opinions. I strongly opposed it, and perhaps it was unanimous among my siblings. His calling to serve our community helped him to run for public office. Later on, we were convinced and gave him our full support. He won a seat in the Municipal Council, which was the start of his political service.
He ran for the second term as Municipal Councilor and won in 2001 and his third term in 2004. For nine consecutive years (1998 - 2007), my Father dedicated his life to improving his constituents' welfare through public service.
During those years, my Father instilled in me the power of perseverance. He taught me to have a fighting spirit, to follow my calling and dreams with unwavering determination. His lessons transformed my fears and doubts into confidence and courage.
He pushed me forward and left my fears behind when he convinced me to follow his path when I ran as a Municipal Youth Council President in our hometown. At first, it was against my will since I needed more confidence to face the people and the position's responsibilities. However, I trusted him to be there to guide me. I won and sat in the Municipal Council for five years, from 2002 - 2007. During those years, I saw how my Father performed and served well on the Council. At that moment, I thank him for believing in me and pushing me beyond my limits. He took away my doubts and fears and let me soar high.
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In 2016, my Father returned to public service after nine years. He wasn't inactive since he held a position as Office of Senior Citizen Affairs (OSCA) President from 2014 - 2016. He ran again for Municipal Councilor, and he won. I did not favor his comeback since I would want to see him live a simpler life away from politics. He was unstoppable and full of energy. His passion and support of the people motivated him to serve. He listened and didn't turn them down. When the people call you to be a leader and a servant, there's an overflowing love and trust, and you just follow their call.
From 2019 until now, he's still serving as a municipal councilor and has overcome several challenges. He fought hard for what he believed was right and for the greater good of the community. He stood up and spoke his mind on controversial issues confronting our society. He showed willpower to get things done and to achieve more for the progress of the community.
My Father taught me the importance of never giving up and never surrendering when you're right. He showed me the power of speaking up and believing in yourself. His example in public service taught me that you can always choose to serve, even without holding an office. He instilled in me the value of always looking back and giving back. And he showed me that when people support and express love, you're on the right track and have done an excellent job.
©️ 2021 Del Cusay
